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How to plan your gay wedding photography (Male couples)

Are we still talking about gay or straight wedding? In 2026, love is love, and your wedding photography should reflect your unique story as a couple. Here are some tips to help you plan

Choosing the right wedding photographer
1

Choose a Photographer Experienced With Gay Male Couples

Look for photographers who regularly photograph LGBTQ+ weddings and show authentic, respectful representations of male couples in their portfolio.

2

Share How You Want Your Relationship Portrayed

Talk openly about whether you prefer romantic, playful, editorial, or documentary-style images so your connection is captured in a way that feels true to you.

3

Plan Poses That Feel Natural for Two Men

Focus on movement, closeness, and interaction—walking together, laughing, foreheads touching, or hands in pockets—to avoid stiff or overly gendered posing.

4

Balance Masculinity and Softness

Mix strong, confident stances with softer moments like gentle touches, leaning in, or quiet eye contact to create emotional and dynamic images.

5

Coordinate Outfits Without Matching Exactly

Choose suits or outfits that complement each other in tone, texture, or formality while still allowing individual personality to shine.

6

Practice Poses Together Before the Wedding

Spend time rehearsing simple poses or interactions so you feel comfortable with proximity, touch, and expression on camera.

7

Plan Time for Intimate Couple Portraits

Build space into your timeline for relaxed, private portraits where you can focus on each other without guests watching.

8

Use Body Angles to Create Connection

Standing at slight angles, shifting weight, and closing physical space between you creates stronger lines and more flattering compositions.

9

Embrace Affection Confidently

Don’t hold back on affection—hugs, kisses, and hand-holding photograph beautifully and reflect your relationship honestly.

10

Trust Your Photographer to Lead and Adapt

A good photographer will guide poses, adjust energy levels, and adapt traditional wedding imagery into poses that celebrate two grooms equally.

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